I couldn't help but wonder...

    As we get older, so does our dating pool. But instead of everyone getting mature, everyone gets more sneaky with the games they play in their personal lives. Nowadays, what does it take for an average 23 year old woman to find someone she can remotely see herself dating. And If she does find that specimen, what are the chances that he will find her to be a potential date. Even worse what are the chances that, that 20 something year old guy has the balls to actually ask her out in todays day. Where everything you do can be recorded or simply be told as a story on any social media app to titled "Why would he think he'd have a chance with me?"

I am not saying that women should be more accepting, god knows we have all dated our fair share of losers. But I think if men could grow the balls and if we all could stop sharing every little encounter we have on social media. People would have more courage asking others out the old fashioned way, when they see someone they fancy in a coffee shop or a bar. 

So my quest for myself is to research what guys in their twenties find approachable, and I am not talking about the creeps, I am talking about a respectful, banter filled chat with someone. 

The new generation, the 20 something year olds including myself, do not approach each other for even the purpose of simple friendship or a quick chat with a stranger. With that being said it is not surprising that a guy would come up to you to make a joke etc. but more than that it is a cultural phenomenon. They will stare at you directly for ages but will not end up saying a single word to you. I refuse to be the one to approach guys at this point in my life and I think as long as we as ladies don't approach or initiate we will all be single  forever. 

So what do we do?