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I couldn't help but wonder...

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     As we get older, so does our dating pool. But instead of everyone getting mature, everyone gets more sneaky with the games they play in their personal lives. Nowadays, what does it take for an average 23 year old woman to find someone she can remotely see herself dating. And If she does find that specimen, what are the chances that he will find her to be a potential date. Even worse what are the chances that, that 20 something year old guy has the balls to actually ask her out in todays day. Where everything you do can be recorded or simply be told as a story on any social media app to titled "Why would he think he'd have a chance with me?" I am not saying that women should be more accepting, god knows we have all dated our fair share of losers. But I think if men could grow the balls and if we all could stop sharing every little encounter we have on social media. People would have more courage asking others out the old fashioned way, when they see someone they fancy...

Surviving and succeeding in college

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          The way college drains the life out of you is indescribable. Believe me I wish I did not know. I am majoring in stem, more specifically the "e" in stem for engineering.  If any of you heard, it is pretty freaking hard but I don't want to come off as saying other degrees are not hard. I think what makes this process is not the hardness of the topics in classes itself, i think the issue is the professors and colleges. The way the classes are designed and given to students is very ineffective in the way that it is not focused on teaching anyone anything. I am not saying the professor should care whether the students are learning I am just saying that the classes should be optimized for learning. However todays' issue is not how to optimize the classes it is how to survive them when all the odds are against you.  I have always been about showing minimal effort with high efficiency. Now, for classes with good lecturers this is easy. Just show...

Want to feel productive and active in the last days of summer

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 So , I am a college student who is currently can be described as a lump of laziness. I have never been the most hardworking person. However, there were times where I was consistent and succeeding. I don't mean academically I mean generally in life where I was focused, and my mind and body was connected. Today I am reminiscing about those days and wondering how I can go back. But before that let's talk about now.  The college I attend has not opened yet so I am still on my summer holiday. Which means sitting at home all day with nothing to do - and before you say get a summer job, where I live, there isn't many options and I couldn't plan my summer very well because of some personal events- you might say don't you have any friends yes yes I do but... here's the thing: the friends I have around where I live all started their colleges ABROAD so I'd have to take a plane to see them, and the friend (yes singular) I can take a bus to see is preparing for IMAT (if...